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Author:

Stynes, Yumi, 1975- author.

Title:

Welcome to consent : how to say no, when to say yes, and how to be the boss of your body / Yumi Stynes & Dr. Melissa Kang ; [illustrations, Jenny Latham].

Edition:

First US edition.

Publisher:

Walker Books USa division of Candlewick Press,

Copyright Date:

2023

Description:

vi, 211 pages : color illustrations ; 19 cm

Subject:

Sexual consent--Juvenile literature.
Puberty--Juvenile literature.
Sexual ethics for youth.
Sexual consent.
Puberty.
Young adult nonfiction.
Instructional and educational works.
Self-help publications.
Illustrated works.

Other Authors:

Kang, Melissa, author.
Latham, Jenny, illustrator.
Candlewick Press, publisher.
Walker Books US, publisher.

Contents:

The golden rules of consent -- What's awesome about consent? -- Why is it hard to talk about consent? -- How do I actually talk about consent? -- What does yes look like? -- What does no look like? -- Why is it sometimes hard to say no? -- Consent mantra : you asked, I answered -- What if I don't know what I want? -- Can I change my mind? -- Puberty changes everything -- If I'm the boss of my body, why do people keep telling me what to do with it? -- Puberty, bodily autonomy, and touch -- Unequal treatment -- Different cultures, different meanings -- How to set your boundaries -- Explain yourself, or don't! -- Self-awareness = feeling + thinking before acting -- What it means to feel safe -- Privacy settings -- How power dynamics affect consent -- Consent challenges and your friends -- Consent challenges and adults -- From crushes to kisses -- Feeling horny -- The right to expect pleasure -- Consent in relationships -- Hookups : respect in the moment -- Consent challenges -- Calling out the adults -- Fight, flight, freeze, appease -- When things don't feel right -- If you need help -- Finding your people -- Expand your vocabulary -- More resources.

Summary:

"Understanding consent is important for people with all kinds of bodies, in all kinds of circumstances--from getting a haircut or letting the doctor check your blood pressure to hugging a friend, picking up a child, or kissing someone. After all, consent isn't always communicated with a clear "Yes, you can!" or "No, you can't!" This guide breaks down myriad situations involving consent and bodily autonomy, including navigating new or changing feelings, recognizing power imbalances, staying safe in online spaces, and keeping relationships mutually comfortable. Through relatable illustrations, clear explanations, and real-life examples, readers will learn how to actively listen and observe, set boundaries, and speak up for themselves and others. Experts Yumi Stynes and Dr. Melissa Kang approach this crucial topic with passion, awareness, and empathy."-- Provided by publisher.

ISBN:

9781536230536
1536230537
1536226173
9781536226171

OCLC:

(OCoLC)1331707018

LCCN:

2022908717

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