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03207aam a2200349 i 4500 001 631A4D1416B311ECA60261495DECA4DB 003 SILO 005 20210916010021 008 210913t20212021azu e 000 0 eng d 020 $a 1950057208 (paperback) 020 $a 9781950057207 (paperback) 035 $a (OCoLC)1267991265 040 $a WCFLS $b eng $c WCFLS $d UKMGB $d IOU $d SILO 082 04 $a 303.69 $2 23 100 1 $a Eddy, William A., $e author. 245 10 $a Calming upset people with EAR : $b how statements showing empathy, attention and respect can quickly defuse a conflict / $c Bill Eddy. 246 3 $a Calming upset people with empathy, attention, respect 246 30 $a How statements showing empathy, attention and respect can quickly defuse a conflict 264 1 $a Scottsdale, Arizona : $b Unhooked Books, an imprint of High Conflict Institute Press, $c [2021] 300 $a 142 pages ; $c 22 cm 490 1 $a Conflict communication series ; $v 4 505 0 $a Introduction: how the EAR statement was born -- Emotions are contagious -- How to give an EAR statement -- EAR in the family -- EAR in the separation and divorce -- EAR at work -- EAR in your neighborhood -- EAR in your group -- EAR for high conflict people -- EAR for police situations -- EAR for political discussions -- EAR for strangers -- EAR for yourself -- List of EAR statement examples. 520 $a The level of stress and conflict in today's world is higher than seen in decades. We all can use tools for managing the emotions this has caused. At the same time, there also appear to be more "high conflict" people who are preoccupied with blaming others and verbally venting or attacking those around them. Yet, these upset emotions and conflicts can often be calmed immediately through the use of a simple EAR Statement", a method developed and refined by Bill Eddy over the past fifteen years and taught to hundreds of thousands of professionals and individuals. Following on the success of his widely-known BIFF Response® method and books for written communication, this new book on EAR Statements for verbal communication will come in handy in all kinds of upset situations: family conflicts, workplace disputes, neighbor controversies, and any other setting. A simple statement communicating empathy, attention and/or respect to an angry, sad, mentally ill or any upset person at any time can work wonders in minutes. Yet it's not as easy as it looks. It takes practice and this book gives over twenty examples of applying this method in families, communities, customer relations, workplace, political discussions, business, police encounters, racial conflicts, schools, mental health settings, and others. Empathy, attention and respect are what all people are looking for, especially when upset or in a conflict. This book will give you the details of how to calm upset people with EAR every day. 650 0 $a Interpersonal conflict. 650 0 $a Empathy. 650 0 $a Attention. 650 0 $a Respect. 830 0 $a Conflict communication series. 941 $a 1 952 $l BAPH771 $d 20210916010236.0 956 $a http://locator.silo.lib.ia.us/search.cgi?index_0=id&term_0=631A4D1416B311ECA60261495DECA4DB 994 $a C0 $b IOUInitiate Another SILO Locator Search