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02738aam a2200421 i 4500 001 00EB3DDC72D911EDA0B05B7C49ECA4DB 003 SILO 005 20221203010154 008 171025s2018 enk b 000 0 eng 010 $a 2017032896 020 $a 1785923536 020 $a 9781785923531 035 $a (OCoLC)1008768273 040 $a NLM $b eng $e rda $c NLM $d VET $d OCLCF $d DLC $d OCLCQ $d OCLCO $d SILO 041 1 $a eng $h dan 042 $a pcc 050 00 $a BF636.6 $b .F34 2017 060 00 $a 2017 I-169 060 10 $a WM 55 082 00 $a 158.3 $2 23 100 1 $a Falk, Bent, $e author. 240 10 $a At være - der, hvor du er. $l English 245 10 $a Honest dialogue : $b presence, common sense, and boundaries when you want to help someone / $c Bent Falk. 264 1 $a London : $b Jessica Kingsley Publishers, $c [2018] 300 $a 117 pages ; $c 22 cm 504 $a Includes bibliographical references. 505 0 $a Introduction -- Technique or attitude -- Crisis -- Anxiety and primary feelings -- Practical guidelines -- It is less complicated than you think -- All essential resources for overcoming a difficulty are in the person having the difficulty, or in the field of interaction between the people in dialogue -- Good help is help towards self-help : all other help is intrusion -- When, as the helper, you don't know what to say or do, that is what you should say or do -- Don't let having a problem turn into a problem in itself -- Boundaries make contact -- You cannot change what you do not accept -- The consolation is that there is no consolation -- The person in distress does not need consolation, but love -- Life is neither fair nor unfair -- Guilt and power are two sides of the same coin -- Forgiveness does not remove guilt : it re-establishes the relationship in spite of the guilt -- And and but: the small words with the biggest effects -- Helping through dialogue: in reality it is possible and not too difficult -- Examples -- The meaning -- Expanding on the concept of meaning -- Possible answers when your old ones don't lead to the kind of contact you want -- Commentary to the "new" answers -- Bibliography. 650 0 $a Counseling. 650 0 $a Interpersonal communication. 650 12 $a Counseling $x methods. 650 22 $a Professional-Patient Relations. 650 7 $a Counseling $2 fast $0 (OCoLC)fst00881212 650 7 $a Interpersonal communication. $2 fast $0 (OCoLC)fst00977344 776 08 $i Online version: $a Falk, Bent. $t Honest dialogue. $d Philadelphia, PA : Jessica Kingsley Publishers, [2018] $z 9781784506896 $w (DLC) 2017051844 941 $a 1 952 $l PQAX094 $d 20231214042649.0 956 $a http://locator.silo.lib.ia.us/search.cgi?index_0=id&term_0=00EB3DDC72D911EDA0B05B7C49ECA4DB 994 $a Z0 $b IOWInitiate Another SILO Locator Search