"First published in Japan in 2016 by Diamond Inc., Tokyo as Shiawase Ni Naru Yuki."
Contents:
Is Adlerian Psychology a Religion? -- The Objective of Education Is Self-Reliance -- Respect Is Seeing People as They Are -- Have Concern for Other People's Concerns -- If We Had "the Same Kind of Heart and Life" -- Courage Is Contagious and Respect Is Contagious Too -- The Real Reason Why One "Can't Change" -- Your Now Decides the Past -- That Bad Person and Poor Me -- There's No Magic in Adlerian Psychology -- The Classroom Is a Democratic Nation -- Do Not Rebuke and Do Not Praise -- What Is the Goal of Problem Behavior? -- Hate Me! Abandon Me! -- If There Is Punishment, Does the Crime Go Away? -- Violence in the Name of Communication -- Getting Angry and Rebuking Are Synonymous -- One Can Choose One's Own Life -- Negate Praise-Based Development -- Reward Gives Rise to Competition -- The Disease of Community -- Life Begins from Incompleteness -- The Courage to Be Myself -- That Problem Behavior Is Directed at "You" -- Why a Person Wants to Become a Savior -- Education Is Friendship, Not Work -- All Joy Is Interpersonal Relationship Joy -- Do You Trust? Do You Have Confidence? -- Why Work Becomes a Life Task -- All Professions Are Honorable -- The Important Thing Is "What Use One Makes of That Equipment" -- How Many Close Friends Do You Have? -- First, Believe -- People Never Understand Each Other -- Life Is Made Up of Trials of "Nothing Days" -- Give, and It Shall Be Given Unto You -- 201 Love Is Not Something One "Falls" Into -- From an Art of Being Loved toward an Art of Loving -- Love Is a Task Accomplished by Two People -- Switch the Subject of Life -- Self-Reliance Is Breaking Away from "Me" -- To Whom Is That Love Directed? -- How Can One Get One's Parents' Love? -- People Are Afraid of Loving -- There Is No Destined One -- Love Is a Decision -- Re-Choose Your Lifestyle -- Keeping It Simple -- To the Friends Who Will Make a New Era -- Afterword.
Summary:
"The Courage to be Disliked shares the powerful teachings of Alfred Adler, one of the giants of 19th-century psychology, through another illuminating dialogue between the philosopher and the young man. Three years after their first conversation, the young man finds himself disillusioned and disappointed, convinced Adler's teachings only work in theory, not in practice. But through further discussions between the philosopher and the young man, they deepen their own understandings of Adler's powerful teachings, and learn the tools needed to apply Adler's teachings to the chaos of everyday life. To be listened to on its own or as a companion to the best-selling first book, The Courage to Be Happy reveals a bold new way of thinking and living, empowering you to let go of the shackles of past trauma and the expectations of others, and to use this freedom to create the life you truly desire. Plainspoken yet profoundly moving, listening to The Courage to Be Happy will light a torch with the power to illuminate your life and brighten the world as we know it. Discover the courage to choose happiness."--Amazon.
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