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02746aam a22003018i 4500 001 8E8BCD10223B11EF96E545AA58ECA4DB 003 SILO 005 20240604012727 008 231019s2024 nyu b 001 0 eng 010 $a 2023049192 020 $a 0593581199 020 $a 9780593581193 040 $a DLC $b eng $e rda $c DLC $d DLC $d SILO 050 00 $a BF575.L8 $b B237 2024 082 00 $2 23/eng/20231218 100 1 $a Baratz, Todd, $e author. 245 10 $a HOW TO LOVE SOMEONE WITHOUT LOSING YOUR MIND : $b FORGET THE FAIRYTALE AND GET REAL / $c Todd Baratz, LMHC. 263 $a 2406 264 1 $a New York, NY : $b Rodale, $c [2024] 300 $a pages cm 500 $a 2024/06/04 504 $a Includes bibliographical references and index. 520 $a "Whether you're on the apps or have already walked down the aisle, you are probably struggling to feel authentically connected. It's not just you; modern love is a mess. We've all heard the advice: You deserve to be loved unconditionally! People pleasingis bad! Your ex is a toxic narcissist! Love yourself first before you try to love someone else! But psychotherapist and sex therapist behind the popular YourDiagnonsense accounts Todd Baratz is here to share the hard truth: These rules are merely defensemechanisms that will sabotage your ability to form deep connections with real people. Adult relationships are not a fairytale; they're fundamentally insecure and full of risk. Unconditional love doesn't exist between adult partners-you need to do your part in order to deserve your partner's love. Your ideal relationship won't be manifested, but it can be created through skills like communication, curiosity, trust, and forgiveness. With wit, warmth, and wisdom, Baratz examines what our culture gets wrong about love, flips the rules that we've been taught, and offers a new way of relating to help you find your way to more fulfilling relationships, whether you're single or committed. Forget the fairytale fantasies that are keeping you stuck; trade them in for realism, accountability, and skills so that you can create satisfying, good enough relationships. Get real with your partner, get dirty, make mistakes, and ultimately grow together. With examples from his own life as a gay man-from childhood traumas, aten-year relationship, and his current experience with dating app culture-along with case studies from his work as a sex and relationship therapist, Baratz adds the needed nuance to what we seek most: love"-- $c Provided by publisher. 650 0 $a Love $x Psychological aspects. 650 0 $a Interpersonal relations. $9 64730 941 $a 1 952 $l BAPH771 $d 20240604014118.0 956 $a http://locator.silo.lib.ia.us/search.cgi?index_0=id&term_0=8E8BCD10223B11EF96E545AA58ECA4DBInitiate Another SILO Locator Search