Declarative language handbook : using a thoughtful language style to help kids with social learning challenges feel competent, connected, and understood / Linda K. Murphy MS, CCC-SLP.
Part 1. Introduction. Why are we here? ; What you need to know to get started right away -- Part 2. Getting to the good stuff : social learning areas fostered by declarative language. Moving beyond eye contact ; Using episodic memory for problem solving ; Appreciating different opinions ; Making mistakes is okay ; Thinking in alternatives and possibilities -- Part 3. Mechanics. The nuts and bolts : constructing declarative statements ; Is it ever okay to be imperative? -- Part 4. Pacing and troubleshooting. The importance of pacing ; Troubleshooting tips -- Part 5. Practice. Practice sets to help you get comfortable -- Part 6. Tracking progress and research. How to recognize progress ; The Declarative Language Pilot Project -- Part 7. Final words. Where do we go from here?
Summary:
"Do you know a child that struggles to be flexible? Is it hard for them to express their emotions calmly using language--often getting upset instead? They might also have trouble making friends or telling you what they did during the day. These skills are needed in life! Wouldn't it be great if there was a way that you could support growth in these areas that was woven into everyday interactions and social opportunities? That is what this book is about. It's to help you, the person who cares deeply about someone with these challenges, use everyday moments to teach and guide your child's social development. You might be a therapist or a teacher, or you might be a parent, grandparent, or babysitter. This book was written to help you feel equipped to make a difference, simply by being mindful of your own communication and speaking style. What you say, and how you say it, matters!"--Page 4 of cover.
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