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A Personal Note 1 -- What This Book is About 2 -- How Do I Know? 3 -- Why We Have Such a Hard Time Communicating 4 -- Where It Begins 5 -- How It Develops 6 -- What We Want 7 -- What Motivates Work 8 -- Status 8 -- Usefulness 9 -- Affection/Acceptance 9 -- Money/Security 10 -- Our Public Image 12 -- What Works, What Doesn't and Why 12 -- What We Already Know 13 -- Basic Work Personalities 13 -- Achievers 14 -- Affiliators 15 -- Influencers 16 -- Using the Work Types 18 -- A Predominance of Achievers 19 -- 2 The Basics of Communicating: Why and How People Listen 21 -- Telling and Listening 21 -- The One-sided Nature of Telling 21 -- Listening Is Work 22 -- Motivation 22 -- What Makes People Listen 23 -- Self Interest 23 -- Who's Telling 25 -- How They Tell It 31 -- The New Techniques of Telling 34 -- Basic Techniques of Television Communication 34 -- Communication Consequences of TV 36 -- Implications for Business Communication 40 -- Verbal vs. Non-Verbal Communication 40 -- How We Communicate 40 -- Common Obstacles to Communication 43 -- How People Feel About Learning 43 -- Language 45 -- 3 Getting Ready to Communicate: Fore-thought for Strategies 48 -- Developing Strategies 48 -- What Goes Wrong and Why 48 -- Where We Get Stuck 52 -- Fore-Thought 52 -- Who Is Your Audience? 53 -- What You Know, What You Need 53 -- The Fore-Thought Chart 56 -- The Basic Idea 56 -- The Process 57 -- Objective Goals 58 -- Emotional Needs 61 -- Probable Expectations 68 -- A Chart for the Summoned 74 -- Fore-Thought Check-List 76 -- Forethought for Larger Audiences 77 -- 4 Structuring and Organizing Business Encounters 78 -- Preparation 78 -- Choose and Edit Your Goals 78 -- Scheduling the Meeting 81 -- When to Meet 81 -- Which Day 84 -- Where to Meet 85 -- To Lunch or Not to Lunch 89 -- Breakfast Meetings 90 -- Getting on the Calendar 91 -- Techniques 91 -- 5 Designing Presentations: What Captures Attention and Understanding 96 -- Guidelines for Designing Presentations 97 -- How We Think 97 -- What We Need So We Understand and Stay Interested 99 -- Structuring a Presentation 104 -- Outline Form 104 -- Order of Presentation 104 -- Checklist 109 -- Making Messages Visual 110 -- Why Use Visual Reinforcement 110 -- What to Show; What to Tell 110 -- "Leave-Behinds" 112 -- Designing Visual Materials 114 -- Basic Guidelines 114 -- Techniques for Using Visual Aids 117 -- 6 Close Encounters: One-on-One 119 -- Openers 119 -- Before You Begin 120 -- Change Gears 120 -- Warm-up 120 -- Small Talk 121 -- Where to Sit 123 -- Amenities 124 -- Body Language 125 -- Substance 126 -- Up Front: Agenda, Goals, Time 126 -- Sharing the Power 127 -- Motivation 129 -- Telling and Explaining 129 -- Discussion 130 -- Special Issues 132 -- Creative Criticism 132 -- Getting at the Truth 134 -- Handling Anger -- Yours and His/Hers 135 -- Closure 138 -- Recap and Clarify 138 -- List Next Steps 139 -- Follow-Up 139 -- End on a High Note 139 -- Checklist 140 -- 7 Presentations: How to Make Memorable Speeches 142 -- Understanding Audiences 142 -- How Audiences Feel 142 -- Planning Your Presentation 145 -- Profile Your Audience 145 -- Why Are They Coming 147 -- Physical Realities 149 -- Designing Your Presentation 150 -- Positioning the Speech 150 -- Basic Organization of a Speech 153 -- Should You Write It? 154 -- Written vs. Oral Speeches 154 -- The Effect of Written Speeches on the Audience 156 -- The Effects on You, the Speaker 157 -- For Addicted Speechwriters 158 -- For Extemporizes 158 -- Making Usable Notes and Outlines 159 -- The Basic Process 159 -- Techniques for Delivering Memorable Speeches 164 -- Attention-Getting Openings 164 -- Audience Involvement 168 -- Presenting Subject Matter 171 -- Endings 174 -- Personal Style 175 -- Being Yourself 175 -- How You Feel Toward Your Audience 176 -- Stage Fright 177 -- Getting Started 179 -- The Lectern or Podium 181 -- Speaking and Language Skills 182 -- Making Language Clear 182 -- Analogies 183 -- Use Words Visually 183 -- Emphasize 184 -- The Use of Silence 184 -- A Postscript 185 -- The Never-Make-A-Speech-Without-It Checklist 185 -- 8 The Art of Being Questioned: The Audience or the Boss Vs. You 188 -- Basic Principles of Answering Questions 188 -- The Questioning Process 188 -- Conditioning 189 -- How We Answer Questions 189 -- The Audiences vs. You: Answering Audience Questions 191 -- Why Answer Questions? 191 -- Preparing for Q & A 193 -- Answering Techniques 196 -- Getting Started 196 -- Handling Questions 198 -- Handling Difficult Questions and Questioners 201 -- Buying Time 201 -- Avoiding the Question 203 -- Turning Questions Around 203 -- Cutting People Off 204 -- Getting the Audience on Your Side 204 -- Handling Hostility 205 -- Why People Get Hostile 205 -- Techniques for Handling Hostility 207 -- The Boss vs. You 211 -- The Dynamics of Power 211 -- How Much Room at the Top 211 -- Preparation 213 -- Basic Techniques for Answering 214 -- Answering Informational Questions 215 -- Answering Critical Questions 217 -- Role Play and Practice 220 -- 9 Meetings: Leading and Participating Effectively 222 -- What Goes Wrong and Why 222 -- Factual Issues 222 -- "Feeling" Issues 224 -- Why Meetings? 226 -- Comparison of What Should Be and What Is 227 -- Basic Personalities at Meetings 228 -- Players in a Group Interaction 229 -- Interaction 232 -- Basic Communication Skills for Meetings 233 -- Listening 233 -- Supporting 236 -- Disagreeing 239 -- Personal Skills for Leaders 240 -- Personal Skills for Meeting Participants 243 -- Creating and Leading Effective Meetings 246 -- Planning 246 -- Creating the Agenda 246 -- Designing and Implementing the Meeting 249 -- Leadership Techniques 250 -- Warm-Ups 250 -- Openings 251 -- The Body of the Meeting 252 -- Assign Visual Charting 253 -- Closure 255 -- 10 The Last Word 257 -- A Personal Note 258.
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