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02679aam a2200301 i 4500 001 90F5851C495811EE9228709642ECA4DB 003 SILO 005 20230902011803 008 230421r20232022nyua 000 0deng d 010 $a bl2023015797 020 $a 0063072262 020 $a 9780063072268 040 $a NjBwBT $b eng $c NjBwBT $e rda $d SILO 050 14 $a HQ734 $b .F74739 2023 082 04 $a 306.872 $2 23/eng/20230421 100 1 $a Fray, Matthew, $e author. 245 10 $a This is how your marriage ends : $b a hopeful approach to saving relationships / $c Matthew Fray. 264 1 $a New York, NY : $b HarperOne, an imprint of HarperCollinsPublishers, $c [2023] 300 $a viii, 296 pages : $b illustration ; $c 21 cm 520 $a "Good people can be bad at relationships. One night during his divorce, after one too many vodkas and a call with a phone-in-therapist who told him to "journal his feelings," Matthew Fray started a blog attempting to piece together the story of how his ex-wife went from the 18-year-old college freshman who adored him to the angry woman who thought he was an asshole before she left him to have sex with someone else. It turned out that even though he was a decent guy, he was kind of a shitty husband. But as he shared raw, uncomfortable, and darkly humorous first-person stories about the lessons he'd learned from his failed marriage, a peculiar thing happened: Matthew started to gain a following. And in January 2016 a post he wrote titled "She Divorced Me Because I left the Dishes by the Sink" went viral and was read over four million times. Written from the lens of his own surprising, life-changing experience and his years counseling couples, Matthew Fray captures what is at the root of so many failed relationships. We simply haven't been taught any of the necessary skills. And in fact, it is sometimes the assumption that we are acting on good intentions that leads to alienating our partners and fomenting mistrust. A candid take and groundbreaking book on relationships that shows us that good people can be terrible partners and the ways we can strive to improve, no matter what stage of life we're in"-- $c Provided by publisher. 600 10 $a Fray, Matthew $x Marriage. 650 0 $a Marital conflict. 650 0 $a Marriage $x Psychological aspects. 650 0 $a Married people $x Psychology. 775 08 $i Reproduction of (manifestation): $a Fray, Matthew. $t This is how your marriage ends $d New York, NY : HarperOne, an imprint of HarperCollinsPublishers, [2022] $z 9780063072251 $w (DLC) 2021044334 941 $a 1 952 $l TYPH572 $d 20230902014320.0 956 $a http://locator.silo.lib.ia.us/search.cgi?index_0=id&term_0=90F5851C495811EE9228709642ECA4DBInitiate Another SILO Locator Search