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03121aam a2200397 i 4500 001 9A81E764D57A11EBB1025BD44AECA4DB 003 SILO 005 20210625010011 008 190805t20202020azua e b 001 0 eng d 020 $a 1950057941 020 $a 9781950057948 035 $a (OCoLC)1153218148 040 $a NZAUC $b eng $e rda $c NZAUC $d OCLCO $d OCLCF $d JAS $d OCO $d OCL $d OCLCO $d IOU $d SILO 082 04 $a 306.89 $2 23 100 1 $a Eddy, William A., $e author. 245 10 $a Don't alienate the kids! : $b raising resilient children while avoiding high-conflict divorce / $c Bill Eddy, LCSW, JD. 246 3 $a Do not alienate the kids 246 30 $a Raising resilient children while avoiding high-conflict divorce 250 $a Revised and updated 10th anniversary edition. 264 1 $a Scottsdale, Arizona : $b High Conflict Institute, LLC, $c [2020] 300 $a xi, 346 pages : $b illustrations ; $c 23 cm 504 $a Includes bibliographical references and index. 505 0 $a Part I: Building a wall (what to avoid). Alienation: what it is -- High-conflict divorce -- Child alienation -- 1000 little bricks -- Emotions are contagious -- All-or-nothing thinking -- Mirroring bad behavior -- Part II: Building a foundation (what to do). Teaching resilience -- The four big skills -- Reasonable parent's dilemma -- How family and friends can help -- How lawyers can help -- How counselors can help -- New ways for families -- The future of family courts -- Conclusion: skills not blame. 520 $a In this tenth anniversary edition of Don't Alienate the Kids! attorney, mediator, and therapist Bill Eddy shows readers how to protect children from the harm of alienation and high-conflict divorce, boosting their resilience by teaching them to think flexibly, manage their emotions, and moderate their behaviors. We all know breakups can get ugly. But sometimes they can get downright vicious, with badmouthing, brainwashing, and allegations of alienation, child abuse and domestic violence, all leading to nasty custody battles. And when they do, it's the children who suffer most. During a high-conflict divorce or separation, kids can develop lifelong habits of all-or-nothing thinking, unregulated emotions, and extreme behaviors. But there's hope! Readers can help kids learn flexible thinking, emotion regulation, effective behaviors, and healthy relationships. Everyone involved must work together. This book shows how parents, family members, friends, counselors, lawyers, parenting coordinators, divorce coaches, and family court judges can become part of the solution, giving children a foundation of resilience that will last a lifetime. 650 0 $a Child welfare. 650 0 $a Children of divorced parents $x Psychology. 650 0 $a Parenting. 650 0 $a Conflict management. 650 0 $a Family mediation. 650 0 $a Divorce mediation. 655 7 $a Self-help publications. $2 lcgft 655 7 $a Creative nonfiction. $2 lcgft 941 $a 1 952 $l BAPH771 $d 20210625010103.0 956 $a http://locator.silo.lib.ia.us/search.cgi?index_0=id&term_0=9A81E764D57A11EBB1025BD44AECA4DB 994 $a C0 $b IOUInitiate Another SILO Locator Search