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02391aam a2200457 i 4500 001 1C4B1298030711E783BF33BEDAD10320 003 SILO 005 20170307012213 008 160928s2016 nyu b 000 0 eng c 010 $a 2016041890 020 $a 0761181512 020 $a 9780761181514 035 $a (OCoLC)964931081 040 $a CoCr/DLC $b eng $e rda $c DLC $d GKX $d OCLCO $d VTL $d IHX $d FM0 $d IGA $d JQM $d OCLCF $d QBX $d OCLCO $d VP@ $d JIM $d SILO 042 $a pcc 050 00 $a HQ769 $b .L357 2016 082 04 $a 649/.7 $2 23 082 14 $a 649 $2 15 100 1 $a Lehr, Jennifer, $d 1969- $e author. 245 10 $a Parentspeak : $b what's wrong with how we talk to our children--and what to say instead / $c Jennifer Lehr. 246 3 $a Parent speak : $b what is wrong with how we talk to our children--and what to say instead 264 1 $a New York : $b Workman Publishing, $c [2016] 300 $a 276 pages ; $c 21 cm 504 $a Includes bibliographical references (pages 266-270). 505 0 $a "Good job!" -- "Who's my big boy?" -- "You're so cute!" -- "Give Grandma a kiss!" -- "Be careful!" -- "Can you say 'thank you'?" -- "Share!" -- "Say 'sorry'!" -- "Tickle, tickle, tickle!" -- "You're okay!" -- "Behave yourself!" -- "I said, 'right now'!" -- "Do you want a time-out?" -- "Do you want a spanking?" 520 $a "Imagine if every time you praise your child with "Good job!" you're actually doing more harm than good, offering meaningless approval instead of actually engaging with your child? Or that insisting "Can you say thank you?" is exactly the wrong way to go about teaching manners? Jennifer Lehr is a smart, funny, fearless writer who takes on "parentspeak" and, in the process, offers a conscious, compassionate approach to parenting"-- $c Provided by publisher. 650 0 $a Success in children. 650 0 $a Children $x Conduct of life. 650 0 $a Interpersonal communication in children. 650 0 $a Child rearing. 941 $a 8 952 $l GOPG641 $d 20240710033917.0 952 $l YEPF572 $d 20231012023429.0 952 $l FXPH314 $d 20220909043051.0 952 $l BOPG851 $d 20181006111025.0 952 $l PNAX964 $d 20180118010243.0 952 $l XAPE737 $d 20171021010933.0 952 $l VFPB334 $d 20170411010602.0 952 $l HRPE845 $d 20170317010330.0 956 $a http://locator.silo.lib.ia.us/search.cgi?index_0=id&term_0=1C4B1298030711E783BF33BEDAD10320 994 $a C0 $b JIMInitiate Another SILO Locator Search