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02930aam a2200349Ii 4500 001 F80E706A3D8C11EE8AE814B62EECA4DB 003 SILO 005 20230818010103 008 230412s2023 sa 000 0 eng d 020 $a 1776391020 020 $a 9781776391028 035 $a (OCoLC)1375555845 040 $a Z@L $b eng $e rda $c Z@L $d Z@L $d CQ$ $d X$@ $d OCLCF $d NUI $d SILO 050 4 $a HT680 $b .H33 2023 082 04 $a 361.1 $2 23/eng/20230412 100 1 $a Hadebe, Ndumi, $e author. 245 10 $a Handle black tax like a pro : $b setting boundaries, improving relationships and achieving freedom / $c Ndumi Hadebe. 264 1 $a Cape Town, South Africa : $b Penguin Books, $c 2023. 300 $a xii, 180 pages ; $c 23 cm 520 $a "Black tax is not so much about money as it is about boundaries. Explicit and unspoken expectations of financial assistance by parents, siblings and other relatives carry a mental and emotional price, affecting our relationships with our loved ones and with money itself. Helping others is commendable, but how do you do it in such a way that you avoid debt and stop the poverty cycle for future generations? After outlining her own experiences with black tax and boundaries, self-leadership coach Ndumi Hadebe presents ten stories based on real situations - from family members' expectations to fear of jeopardising relationships by saying 'no' and being judged for wanting a lifestyle different from those around you. Each story explores different themes and complexities on the black tax spectrum, followed by reflections on how each situation could have been handled in a way that is peaceful and non-threatening to your relationships with loved ones. Handle Black Tax Like a Pro is an engaging and practical guide that will provide you with a roadmap to stronger relationships, better finances and overall well-being."--Publisher's description. 500 $a Includes glossary. 505 0 $a Story one: Unappreciative mom -- Story two: Absent, entitled father -- Story three: Indebted -- Story four: Four decades of black tax -- Story five: When siblings' needs are a priority -- Story six: When a blessing becomes a curse -- Story seven: Friends who refuse adulting -- Story eight: Widowed businesswoman -- Story nine: Am I a burden? -- Story ten: Success guilt -- Confronting black tax through boundaries â°Ìâ Boundaries with self. 650 0 $a Middle class $x Social aspects. $x Social aspects. 650 0 $a Black people $x Economic conditions. 650 0 $a Black people $x Social life and customs. 650 0 $a Ubuntu (Philosophy) 650 7 $a Black people $x Economic conditions. $2 fast $0 (OCoLC)fst00833904 650 7 $a Black people $x Social life and customs. $2 fast $0 (OCoLC)fst00834008 650 7 $a Ubuntu (Philosophy) $2 fast $0 (OCoLC)fst01744357 941 $a 1 952 $l OVUX522 $d 20231117013050.0 956 $a http://locator.silo.lib.ia.us/search.cgi?index_0=id&term_0=F80E706A3D8C11EE8AE814B62EECA4DBInitiate Another SILO Locator Search